Focus on the Big picture

       Imagine yourself in 10 years from now.what do you see? Those are things worth holding onto. Everything  else is not worth your time.Let go of things that you want now and hold onto  those things that comes in the Big picture.You see yourself as  successful in your career ? work on that now!!.Leave everything else that wont matter in a few years from now.Focus on the Big Picture !!

    Be practical . Work Hard on your dreams.Hardwork always pays off.Write down your dreams and imagine yourself in that place.. 
Open your eyes and realise how stupid are you to cling on to these little things that's not worth your time.Live a life with no regrets,even if it means you have to face failure,letting others win ,play dumb or help your enemies.

     No matter how much we wish ,some things cannot befit  in to the Big picture.Move on.yea ,Life is unfair But Everything works out great in the End.If it doesnt ,then probably its not the end .Moving on may be the worst part but holding onto things that were never yours is worser.Life gives you everyhing you need and even more..so wait for the surprises..The most successful people are the people who foresee things and work on it other than  trying to get everything you see on yourway ahead .

 Dream .. Focus ..Go for it .. and make a perfect life out of an imperfect world.

                                                                                                                          

Random thoughts ..

You meet people everyday,everywhere ..
some of them touch your life, some of them dont ..
its not a miracle,if a new person came into your life and made a difference
But ,its only miracle ,if those who came never Left !!

Who 'll take pictures of a photographer the way he photographs others?
who 'll take care of a mother like she does to her children?
who'll make that person smile,who makes the whole world smile?
who'll understand you,like the way you do ?

I love this song ..

I want to be remembered ..

Closing cycles

One always has to know when a stage comes to an end. If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through.
Closing cycles, shutting doors, ending chapters – whatever name we give it, what matters is to leave in the past the moments of life that have finished.

Did you lose your job? Has a loving relationship come to an end? Did you leave your parents’ house? Gone to live abroad? Has a long-lasting friendship ended all of a sudden? You can spend a long time wondering why this has happened.

You can tell yourself you won’t take another step until you find out why certain things that were so important and so solid in your life have turned into dust, just like that. But such an attitude will be awfully stressing for everyone involved: your parents, your husband or wife, your friends, your children, your sister.
Everyone is finishing chapters, turning over new leaves, getting on with life, and they will all feel bad seeing you at a standstill.

Things pass, and the best we can do is to let them really go away.

That is why it is so important (however painful it may be!) to destroy souvenirs, move, give lots of things away to orphanages, sell or donate the books you have at home.

Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts – and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room for other memories to take their place.
Let things go. Release them. Detach yourself from them.

Nobody plays this life with marked cards, so sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. Do not expect anything in return, do not expect your efforts to be appreciated, your genius to be discovered, your love to be understood.

Stop turning on your emotional television to watch the same program over and over again, the one that shows how much you suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning you, nothing else.

Nothing is more dangerous than not accepting love relationships that are broken off, work that is promised but there is no starting date, decisions that are always put off waiting for the “ideal moment.”

Before a new chapter is begun, the old one has to be finished: tell yourself that what has passed will never come back.
Remember that there was a time when you could live without that thing or that person – nothing is irreplaceable, a habit is not a need.
This may sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but it is very important.

Closing cycles. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because that no longer fits your life.

Shut the door, change the record, clean the house, shake off the dust.

Stop being who you were, and change into who you are.

                                                                                                   - from Paulo Coelho's Blog

People that Come into your Life ..

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, neighbour, co-worker, longest friend, lover, or even a complete stranger) but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
Some people come into our lives and quickly go.
Some people move our souls to dance.
They awaken us to new understanding with the passing whisper of their wisdom.
Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon.
They stay in our lives for awhile, leave footprints in our hearts,
and We are never, ever the same.
And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realised your potential, strength, willpower, or heart. Everything happens for a reason, nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless. The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience help to create who you become.
Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
Make every day count!! Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself; it will be hard for others to believe in you.
You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.
                                                                                                    ( Unknown Author)

What a Crappy Day ..

Yet another crappy day ..

       I went to Bed at 10:00 pm yesterday ,which happens to be very difficult choice to me as im a late night sleeper..I shut down my computer and went to bed peace fully ..and had a Good nights sleep . yea till 12:00 am.The New day begins then.I woke up from my sleep when my roomate had to call all the people around the world at midnight .Since i got up from sleep ,I thought to make a call to my sister,and i ran out of credits .So,I sat to read something ..Biochemistry book ..which is not a very good choice of book to read when you are half drowsy and pissed off because you had to wake up from half sleep..I know i read a few many pages but retained nothing . so , went to sleep by 4 am.couldnt sleep even then,so I thought about random funny moments in life ,a few funny friends ..and went to sleep smiling at 5:00 am.. only to wake up at 7:00 am by roomate to get ready for clinical rotation.

   today was my first day in pediatrics department ..I like babies a lot and i was pretty excited about it . it was about 7:50 already,and had to run to the hospital to reach in time for rotation,to make a good first impression.went in to the building ,and was searching for the department floor on elevator board only to find that peds department was in a whole different building.paced at the maximum speed to the building,with a really really bad system of elevators .which stopped in each floor for no reason.anyway,reached the department with a 30 minute delay.saw a doctor went to her,she was paying no attention to us.i was scared to  death because i know she might be mad at us for being late.we  followed her no matter what,went to the patient room and looked like a complete idiot.soon,my friend read her name plate,only to realise it was the wrong doctor.ran out of the room,searched for the right one this time,and found her finally.a very pleasing woman.she couldnt speak a single word of english,and i did not understand a lot what she said ,but i shook my head and made her happy.after a long rotation of wards.she asked us to auscultate the baby and tell her what i hear. I kept my stethescope on her chest  and all i could hear was some chinese music playing . "na-nah-ne-neeh" the kid was playing with some kind of music toy and i was like "oh,God". Though I didnt hear anything,I looked like i got it all.

went to the office,she asked for the text book.which we had forgot to take today,both of us.she asked politely to go fetch the book and be back soon.. I was like "what the hell" .. I had to go back all the way,then get into 7th floor(no elevators)in dormetry,find a friends book.anyway I did it,got the book.

In a real hurry,BUT desperately wanted a bite because I skipped the breakfast,i went into the cafeteria and was yelled by the lady in charge for entering with  lab coat on.i had to take it off,get the food,run to the hospital and had to take stairs AGAIN!! ,becauser waiting for elevator would mean staying there the whole day..

and then came back from hospital ,and bumped into the rudest professor(whom none of us would ever want to meet again|) .I dont know why,the very sight of him gives me the nightmares ..

the day isnt over yet..But everything has got a limit right.may be this is the limit today ..aaaarrgh ..Now I have to sleep peacefully. had a rough day!!

and did i mention,apparently ,being with babies with diarrhea ,projectile vomitting and constant crying in a very high pitch ..Not very amusing..even on a normal day ..